Wednesday, 31 October 2018

Little Tikes Games Night: Crazy Blender and Hot Hoops Review

We were invited to take part in a Kids versus Parents games night by Little Tikes. They sent us 2 Little Tikes board games and everything we needed for a great evening (well afternoon) which would include food, a film and a medal. We were sent Little Tikes Crazy Blender and Hot Hoops to review as part of our games night and had a lot of fun as you can see in our YouTube Video.

Two children looking at the Crazy Blender next to the packaging in front of a blackboard saying Kids and Adults

Sunday, 28 October 2018

Gift Guide for 6 to 10 year old Children

There is a definite change in children around the time they start school. Suddenly they seem more grown up and aware of the world, aided by the growing ability to read yet they are still (fortunately) quite innocent and you don’t want them to grow up to soon. Presents need to be more mature than they were and still a lot of fun, but you don’t want them to be too grown up. This gift guide has a selection of present ideas which are fun, but won’t be seen as too babyish by children in the 6 to 10 age group.


Saturday, 27 October 2018

Visiting SEALIFE London With Children This Half Term

This half term we headed to the London’s Southbank and SEALIFE London, the aquarium that you never really expect to be there. Whether you want to visit the Ascarium in the run up to Halloween or you just want to know a bit more about visiting the London attraction with young children this post will tell you what you need to know.

two children looking into a large glass fish tank

Friday, 26 October 2018

Gift Guide for Toddlers and Preschoolers

If you are looking for presents for a toddler or preschooler than I have found a selection which will help to inspire their creativity, entertain them and help grow their minds. These include some of the favourite items we own, the best of the products we have reviewed this year and new products which I think will make the perfect gift for this age group, many of which I requested a sample of to be included in this gift guide.

A great selection of ideas for presents for toddlers and preschoolers

Thursday, 25 October 2018

I am still scared of losing him

*Trigger warning: talks about baby loss*

Throughout this pregnancy I have lived with the fear of losing my baby. I lost the last one so it’s possible I could lose this one too. There is no reason why I should, but there is no known reason why I lost the last one either. At 29 weeks I can feel my son kicking away in my tummy, but everyday I live with the fear that I won’t ever see my little boy kicking a ball around in the garden.

A sunset over a field

Giving Your Children The Things They Actually Need

As a parent it’s easy to fall into the trap of trying to give your child everything they say they want or the luxuries that other people have. Even more so in these days of social media where it's so easy to compare our lives to others.  It makes it easy to forget that so much of what we work hard to provide is really far less important than we think at the time. If you are worried about money in the run up to Christmas and you are wondering how you will afford everything here is a reminder of what your children actually need. 

two sisters in party dresses sitting on the floor and smiling

Wednesday, 24 October 2018

Why Singapore Is A Great Place To Take An Exotic Holiday With Children

I love to go on holidays in the UK with my children, but as they get older there is a growing appeal of travelling to far away, warm locations. Going somewhere we know that the weather will be reliable and there will be new cultures and experiences for us all. If you are looking for a place to visit that is exotic, captivating and fascinating, as well as kid-friendly then the city state of Singapore may tick all your boxes. Find out why Singapore is so well suited to families in this post.

Smart Ways To Stay Healthy On Family Holidays

Whether you have made a special effort to get fit for your holiday or it’s a regular part of your routine staying healthy on family holidays can be tough thanks to all of the temptation that you’ll find around you. We want to enjoy ourselves and relax, but keeping a few good habits while away can help prevent problems on holiday and will stop you from feeling run down and unhappy the second you land on home soil. 

A view along a beach towards villas and lots of footprints in the sand

How To Make Your Home More Child Friendly

When you are thinking about starting a family it is a great time to make adjustments to your home to make it more child friendly. In practice though I know a lot of people (myself included) who find it is the discovery that they are pregnant which motivates them to find a new more suitable house or make modifications to their existing one to better accommodate the needs of a family. Babies on the move and toddlers know no boundaries when they start to explore the world so it makes life less stressful for everyone if their environment is as safe as possible. Here are a few tips on how to adjust your home to the needs of your little one. 

Tuesday, 23 October 2018

How To Transition Children From Baths To Showers

Bathing your baby for the first time is amazing and scary. You’re mesmerised by their tiny little limbs and smiles but also terrified because they seem so fragile and you are worried about not supporting them properly in the water. I still remember the first time I gave my eldest a bath over 7 years ago, she hated it, but that soon changed. As your child grows older, they may want to make the switch from baths to showering on their own. This can cause anxiety for parents and kids alike, but there are a few things that you can do to make the transition easier. Here are six helpful tips. 

A toddler sitting in the bath playing

Monday, 22 October 2018

Visiting Cutty Sark in Greenwich with Children

Cutty Sark rests in a specially built dry dock by The Thames in Greenwich, South London. Originally built in 1869 to bring tea from China it has been restored to illustrate what a cargo ship was like in the late 19th and early 20th century. The interactive and informative displays make it appealing to children and adults alike. I was invited to visit with my family to find out more and this post contains what you need to know if you are thinking of visiting the British Clipper Ship with children.

The Cutty Sark Clipper Ship against a blue sky

Friday, 19 October 2018

No Children Allowed: Finding The Perfect Parents Only Holidays

Going on holiday with your children can be great, but what if you and your partner want a break from everything, including your children? More and more parents are leaving their children behind and going on a holiday where they can relax with no responsibilities, routines or early morning wake ups. While it can be easy to feel guilty, spending quality time with your partner and properly resting can be beneficial to the whole family. If that seems like a dream to you maybe this post will help you start thinking through the practicalities and the possibilities to help it become a reality you can enjoy before your children have grown up?

people sitting on sun loungers as the sun sets out at sea

How to Stay Healthy and Active When You Have Kids

When you have children your priorities change and sometimes you don’t feel you have any time for you. It is totally normal to feel that all your time is devoted to your family, especially when your children are small, but it doesn't have to be that way. If you know that you need to make changes to get more fit and active then sometimes a few simple changes can help and it might be possible to get the rest of your family involved too.

Thursday, 18 October 2018

Presents To Give To Parents That They Will Love

Being a parent is the most wonderful gift, but that doesn’t mean we don’t want presents too. I find I spend so much time looking for gifts for others that it makes me appreciate being given the perfect gift even more. Here are a selection of presents, ranging from the functional to the beautiful that G and I would love to receive and I’m sure other parents would too.

A selection of presents to give to parents to provide inspiration

Tuesday, 16 October 2018

Who's That Girl Tween Beauty Products Review

My eldest daughter loves make up and beauty products. She’s seen me putting on the basics for years so it’s not surprising that she always wants her own bits. As mini me’s our daughters obviously want to experiment, play and copy us, but when it comes to buying her make up and beauty products it can be a challenge to know what to get: the play make up aimed at children is often bizarre colours and slimy, but products targeted at adults doesn’t seem quite right either. Who’s That Girl is a new beauty range from MGA Entertainment aimed a fashionable young Tweens (but suitable from age 6 plus) and I love that the products are more about having fun than covering up. My eldest daughter, M, has been trying out some of the products from the range that we were sent to review, but what did she think? 

The packaging of Colour Streak Hair, Glitter Roots, Selfie Masks and mood Lips

Monday, 15 October 2018

The Tale Of A White T-Shirt and the #ACEforSchool Challenge

When my eldest was in her first year of school I was sitting outside a classroom waiting to speak to her teacher. One of the wall displays was a white t-shirt pinned up and covered in various stains. It was accompanied by a message encouraging parents not to mind that their child came home with dirty clothes but to be glad they were having a good time.  It made me laugh because I might not get much out of my daughter if I asked what she had done at school that day, but I can make some guess from the state of her clothes.

ACE Stain Remover Spray and ACE for colours next to a school t-shirt

Num Noms Smoothie Movie Night and the Snackables Silly Shakes Maker Review

Recently my eldest and I haven’t been getting on that well. Her behaviour is always worse when she is worried about things, but she doesn’t easily open up and talk to me about what is bothering her. There has been a lot of shouting and foot stamping over the last few weeks. I knew we needed to spend some time together to sort things out so it was good timing that we were sent everything we needed to have a Num Noms Smoothie Movie Night. M and I had a lot of fun playing with the Num Noms Snackables Silly Shakes Maker before getting changes into PJs and cuddling up on the sofa to watch a film. It’s amazing what some quality time and having a laugh can do for the relationship with your children. 

The Silly Shakes Maker in it's box with a 7 year old posing next to it


Sunday, 14 October 2018

Rainbow Themed Gift Guide for Newborns to Adults

Rainbows represent hope following a storm. They are beautiful and they can take your breath away.  I am planning for the birth of my rainbow baby in January (a baby born after loss) so rainbows now mean even more to me. Whether you are buying a present for a family welcoming a rainbow baby, to celebrate gay pride or just someone who loves to see a rainbow when it has been raining here are a selection of presents that might be perfect.

A title text box saying "20 Rainbow Themed Gift Ideas" with images of rainbow gifts faded in the background

10 Reasons To Visit South East Asia

South East Asia isn’t the easiest place to get to from the UK – you’re looking at a 12 hour flight at least in order to get there. However, the subcontinent makes up for this with its warm climate, vibrant culture and unique attractions. For those debating the long haul flight, here are 10 reasons to get on that plane and see South East Asia.

Beach scene

Friday, 12 October 2018

Review of Paradise Wildlife Park in Hertfordshire

It was a cold Sunday morning when we headed to Paradise Wildlife Park to see what was new. Along with lions, tigers and other big cats at the attraction in Broxbourne, Hertfordshire there are meerkats, tapirs, camels, dinosaurs… Yes that’s right I did say dinosaurs, because Paradise Wildlife Park isn’t like your standard zoo,  one side of the park is primarily animals (from the exotic to the farmyard) the other side has a large play area, soft play, splash park, museum of speed and since Easter 2018 a dinosaur area with 30 moving dinosaurs. That means there is plenty to do to keep little ones running around and hot drinks to warm up the big people.

Looking at  a large map of Paradise Wildlife Park

Thursday, 11 October 2018

A Next Generation Experience In Cruising

We live in a great time for travel. Never before have so many people been able to afford to go see the world with their own eyes instead of hearing of watching about it. This also means that companies are all trying to compete for our money and give us the best value and experiences possible. As you may have seen already, new Airbus and Boeing aircraft for the commercial sector are getting bigger and bigger. With new engines that have 100,000 ft-lb thrust capability, passenger jets can hold well over 300 people onboard. To counteract this, cruise ships have also gotten bigger and bigger to provide a different kind of holiday experience. When I visited a cruise ship last year I was amazed at how many passengers can fit on modern cruise ships, have space to themselves, enjoy the different features onboard and yet still travel the oceans and seas in comfort. With cruise ships getting increasingly sophisticated, impressive and large maybe it's time to save up to experience one?

Wednesday, 10 October 2018

How To Stop Your Child Scratching: from the sensible to the ridiculous

Last night I was kept awake as my 7 year old lay next to me in bed scratching, yes it appears that even at 7 years old she is still an occasional bed invader. This time it was because she'd had a bad dream and she felt sick. For well over an hour she kept me awake and in that time I had to stop her scratching countless times. The eczema on her legs has had another flare up (although fortunately not a bad one) and it affects her most at night. It doesn’t matter whether your child is scratching because of eczema, psoriasis or just dry skin, simply telling them to stop won’t make a difference. As I eventually drifted off to sleep I started to think of all the ways you can get stop children scratching and as the dreams took over the ideas started to become a little less sensible.

A child snuggled up in bed

Tuesday, 9 October 2018

Still breastfeeding: A tale of extended breastfeeding through pregnancy

I’ll let you in on a secret: I’m still breastfeeding my two and a half year old. I know a few other people who are breastfeeding their toddlers (not that any of us mention it very often), but I hardly know anyone who has breastfed through pregnancy. That’s sad because for months I have wanted someone who I can turn to and commiserate with about how much it sodding hurts. 

Me and My toddler both happy and wearing matching tops

Monday, 8 October 2018

How To Have a Happy Bedtime Routine For Children

How does the children’s bedtime routine go for you? Do you get tears, shouting or endless requests for one more story? Bedtime should be a lovely end to the day with cuddles and closeness, but sometimes as parents we can dread the nightly struggle. The more tired we are as parents, and the more desperately we need some child free time the longer bedtime seems to take. Here are some suggestions for how to have a stress free bed time based on my toddler’s bedtime routine.


5 stunning family villa in Samui for a restful holiday

Guest Post:
Koh Samui, the beautiful island in Thailand, is known for its white-sand beaches, family-friendly villas, serene panoramas, exciting nightlife, and waterfront bars. When travelling with your family, especially if you have children, then it is ideal to experience Samui from the comfort of a kid-friendly villa.

Saturday, 6 October 2018

Going Back To Being A Stay At Home Mum

Ok technically my employment status hasn’t changed recently. I’m still bringing in an income through my blog and social media, but ever since G’s job finished in July it has been a bit different with two adults at home each day. Life changed again this week when G started his new job on Monday and to be honest it is a bit of a relief.

Me and a toddler wearing police hats and smiling

Friday, 5 October 2018

Child Friendly Bathroom Design Ideas

Do your children have their own bathroom? My girls share the family bathroom, but we’ve found that designing the bathroom to make it child friendly can make life much easier for all of us. It can be really simple to make changes with a bit of research.  A combination of bright colours and patterns as well as a few small modifications can make your children love the bathroom and make it easier for them to use.  If you are looking to redesign the bathroom for your children here are a few simple tips for kid-friendly bathroom design ideas that you don’t want to miss out on!

A collection of rubber ducks on the side of a bath
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The Problem With Instagram: Growth, Engagement, Pods and Instants

Instagram can be a total pain to grow. With more users signed up than ever it has led to increased competition and it’s easy to get lost in the crowd. As more people use it as a source of income there are also lots of people scheduling their posts and rarely even logging in to engage with others so more users doesn't necessarily lead to a larger audience for your posts. Why is it so difficult to grow on Instagram? What problems do bloggers face? And how can you grow your Instagram in a sustainable and risk free way? After experimenting for a few months I have finally got my account to start growing again. This post talks about why so many of us have problems growing our Instagram accounts and what the answer is for sustainable growth.

A photo of a Mac opened to Instagram feed for EssexKate

Thursday, 4 October 2018

Thinking Of The Future...

There is something about being a parent and being pregnant that makes me want to plan for the future. Thanks to me having a series of job moves and finally self employment as well as G’s work history as a contractor neither of us have currently have a great pension. We have a small amount of savings for a rainy day, but the last couple of months with G being out of work has shown how quickly they disappear. The one thing I am grateful for is our house. Even after living here only 2 years it has gone up £40’000 in value according to this calculator so it provides me with some reassurance for our future. I appreciate property values go down as well as up, but I still have more confidence in house prices than the interest rate on my savings account.

Cactus plants in the foreground with a sunset over the sea behind

Wednesday, 3 October 2018

The Best Advent Calendars for 2018: Beauty, Alcohol, Toys, Food and Home

There may be 2 months to go until December, but now is the time to get buying your advent calendars because some of the most popular designs will sell out fast. While you can still find the traditional calendars with little cardboard doors and pictures behind if you look *really* hard and supermarket aisles are full of the chocolate ones the variety of advent calendars available gets more exciting every year (even if the cost seems to be a little crazy).  I have trawled the internet for new advent calendars and updated versions of old favourites.  Here are over 20 of my most exciting finds in beauty, food, alcohol, toys and home advent calendars.

A title box with a gold glittery background and 20 + of the best advent calendars for 2018 written on it

Tuesday, 2 October 2018

Review of the Stoves BI900EF Electric Double Oven

My kitchen is the heart of my home, and the heart of my kitchen is the oven so when ours started to stop working I needed a new one with as little stress as possible. The idea of going round a sales room with a toddler turning all the nobs and trying to climb into dishwashers didn’t sound like a great idea so I went online to look at the options available from AO kindly offered me the Stoves BI900EF Built In Electric Double Oven to review and I got to experience their delivery, connection and recycling services too.

Pulling out a roasting chicken from an oven


Monday, 1 October 2018

Halloween Giveaway with Red Letter Days

What are your plans for Halloween? Will you have a party? Go trick or treating? Maybe this year you could do something different for the occasion and have a date night? Red Letter Days has lots of ideas of places you could go to celebrate Halloween including: Zombie Infections, a Haunted Bus Tour in London and Murder Mysteries. To help get you in the mood for Halloween they are offering a Escape Room Experience to one of my blog readers in this latest giveaway.

2 people looking through a door with a worried look on their face

Getting Your Children To Share A Bedroom With Less Stress

I have always wanted a family with several children, even when I was a child myself. I didn’t know what sort of parent I would be at the time and it’s only since I have had children that I have really started to understand myself. It’s often when you see your behaviours reflected in your children or hear your words coming out of their mouths that you stop to think about your good, and bad, habits. Sharing a room and frequently arguing with my older sister I have never been under the impression that families are perfect, but it’s only really as an adult with a growing family that I have realised just how much clutter, mess and noise comes with having children. Having a happy family requires sacrifices and constant work from everyone. With (soon to be) 5 people in a 3 bedroom house sharing a room is a necessity and this can lead to lots of fights, but with patience and some handy tips you can make sure children in a shared room don’t feel they are having to compromise.